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二十一世纪，已经全面进入“小三”时代了！婚外恋，恋外恋……曾经说爱情是两个人的事，但现如今却不得不承认：越来越多的人的爱情，已经成了三个乃至三个以上的人的事情了！

虽然觉得这样的社会现实有点点令人心里发寒，但是面对现实总比逃避现实要好得多。对工作中所接触到的“小三”进行了一些归类分析，得说：做小三也是有“门槛”的。同样的一件事，不同的女人去尝试，会有不同的结果。

在此，总结几条女人“小三”的入门标准。

1、有稳定的职业和收入，没有沉重的家庭负担。职业不稳定收入不固定且家庭负担沉重的女人去当“小三”，很明显也迅速的会直奔“二奶”的岗位。事实证明：“二奶”是一份相当没有发展前景的职业，95%以上的从业者都会年老色衰被辞退，从临时工转正成正式工的人寥寥无几。

2、要心智成熟，具备解决问题的能力。调查中发现，几乎所有女人成为“小三”都不是有预谋的，而是一步步身不由己稀里糊涂陷进去的。“小三”是个复杂工种，进入之前，得要弄明白，自己到底有没有解决问题的能力？否则注定女人要糊里糊涂跟着别人的步子乱转，到最后不仅要被甩，对方还会把恶名全推到你身上！好欺负的女人不适合当“小三”。

3、必须是“非处女”。如果你是处女，又恰恰把第一次给了这个有妇之夫，那你完了，这辈子心里都会有道大大的伤疤在隐隐作痛：一开始是因为有情而不能成眷属；到后来则是因为当初给错了人！不能承担结果的女人不要为一个不能为你负责任的男人轻言付出！

4、年龄必须是三十岁以下。过了三十岁的女人没有权利去当“小三”！三十岁之后女人还在拿着自己的青春和婚姻命运开玩笑，这是醉生梦死的自残行为！损人不利己！

5、要么有名，要么事业有成。越是有名气有地位的女人去当“小三”，社会对她们的宽容度越高，比如琼瑶比如张爱玲，老百姓认为她们是在演绎一段风流佳话，但换了其他默默无闻平凡无奇的普通女人，唾沫星子会淹死人！

6、本科或以上学历，最好有一门专长。这才符合新时代新女性的资质，有学历有才情的女人敢于挑战世俗，对这样的女人社会往往也是持无可奈何的态度，当然，出门搞外恋的男人也都是青睐此类才情女子的！

7、不要太漂亮。相当惊艳的女人去当“小三”是屈才，只要耐心等待善加挑选，自有大把大把的优等一手男等着你。另外，一个相貌中等的女人当“小三”，外人会感慨“也许他们真的有爱情”，但一个相当漂亮的女人当“小三”，不论有没有真感情，世人都会骂“狐狸精，勾引人”！

8、相信爱情，但不迷信爱情。相信爱情，会让一个女人抱以乐观的人生态度。但如果就此认为爱情可以出现奇迹、可以战胜一切（包括让一个男人舍下财产、舍下孩子、舍下双方父母的面子……），那就是迷信。迷信是会害人的！

9、够多情，也够绝情。婚外恋男人都逃不来至情至性的多情女，但一个已婚男人，可以爱，但不可以当真。该说“分手”的时候，不要表现得拖泥带水，要够绝情，敢爱也敢不爱的女人才算是有当“小三”的资格！

10、      不要去跟太优秀的女人抢老公。一个男人明明家里有出色的老婆，却还出来搞婚外恋，很多被他盯上的女人会觉得自豪，认为这是自身魅力的体现。但是你要知道，一个优秀女人，也许看不住老公，但绝对栓得住老公，男人也有婚姻势利心，谁都希望自己的配偶越优秀越好，如果你的各方面素质比不过人家老婆，那“第三者”的门槛请慎入，因为到最后十有八九你只是个玩玩而已的“陪恋”罢了！

 

 

刚刚看完法证先锋2大结局, 还在感动ing呢。看到bell和Iven就不自觉地跟着傻笑，很羡慕那样的啊~~

“一世都那么爱你，疼你，宠你”呵呵，听着感觉很美啊~~

我觉得最感人的就是Iven录的那段video啦~~呵呵 看着看着鼻涕眼泪的都拧一块了 哈

不管怎么说，这个结局还是很美的，虽然觉得佘美女演的西关大少很失败，但是这部戏里的她看着还是很舒服的。。

我想若然有个像Iven这么会哄女生的男朋友， 那么天下的女生就不会再和男朋友吵架了吧，世界该多美好和谐啊~~

呵呵 大结局-我喜欢~

哈哈，一个球盲说自己喜欢俄罗斯队。。。那个球盲就是我！～～哈哈

我就是喜欢，怎么滴～～谁叫人家长的帅，跑的快呢，，，你看，不是那谁也喜欢他，要买他麽。

我也喜欢，他就是我家小帅帅啦～～我还喜欢10号那个长的像小怪物的，，哈哈。

转自powerapple.com


看来大家的力量不小！！ 这么快就报上来了！！


http://www.ft.com/cms/s/0/0d2d6b20-072c-11dd-b41e-0000779fd2ac.html?nclick_check=1

但是他写有些怀疑这个活动能维持多长 （因为三年前反日货的时候只维持了很短的一段时间）

所以大家还是要继续努力呀！！

要是大家看不到连接 可以直接去 http://www.ft.com 主页往下一点， 到 World 那里 - 那边有一整个系列关于中国奥运的 。。。。。。
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更新 - 刚刚跑去买报纸了 - 发现就在第一页上有highlights! 还是在最上面
原文


Chinese urged to boycott French goods
By Geoff Dyer in Shanghai and David Pilling in Narita

Published: April 10 2008 22:13 | Last updated: April 10 2008 22:13

Chinese consumers have been urged to boycott French goods in response to the raucous protests that accompanied the Olympic torch through Paris. The appeal, circulated on internet chatrooms and bulletin boards,  indicates the protests earlier this week have not only embarrassed the Beijing government, but also ignited a strong nationalist reaction among sections of the Chinese public.

Jacques Rogge, IOC president, said that when China was awarded the 2008 games government officials promised it would “advance the social agenda of China, including human rights”.

He said: “We definitely ask China to respect this moral engagement.”

The protests that have accompanied the torch relay presented a “crisi” for the Olympic movement, said Mr Rogge, who has gone out of his way not to antagonise the host nation.

The Chinese government said the IOC should defend the commitment in the Olympics charter to avoid politics and “bringing in any irrelevant political factors”.

Beijing also said on Thursday it had arrested 45 “terrorist” suspects who had been planning suicide bomb attacks and the kidnapping of athletesThe suspects all come from the heavily Muslim province of Xinjiang on the north-western border.

During a visit to Japan, the Dalai Lama, the Tibetan spiritual leader, struck a conciliatory note. He said the Chinese people deserved the Olympics “despite unfortunate events in Tibet”. But he welcomed support for the Tibetan cause seen in this week’s
protests. “It is their right to criticise. I have no right to say ‘Shut up’,” he said. He supported only non-violent protests, however.

The appeal to boycott French goods appeared on the internet on Wednesday and has spread widely among young Chinese. A web page bearing a petition appeared to have been blocked on Thursday afternoon.

Companies named in the campaign include luxury brands owned by LVMH, such as Louis Vuitton and Givenchy, and the cosmetics group L’Oréal, which has a large business in China.

The torch relay in London was badly disrupted and the route of the San Francisco leg was changed at the last minute to avoid protests, but it is the events in Paris that appear to have angered Chinese most.

Internet postings complained about the banner in support of human rights draped outside Paris city hall. A photograph of a man trying to grab the torch from a Chinese girl in a wheelchair drew many responses. The man wore a hat in the colours of the Tibetan flag.

Several foreign brands in China have suffered damaging firestorms of internet criticism in recent years. A campaign against Japanese companiesthree years ago had little lasting impact.

Indonesian officials said on Thursday they had cancelled an April 22 Olympic torch relay around Jakarta. After receiving a request from Beijing, they have changed the route to confine the torch to the
vicinity of the main sports stadium.

 

Additional reporting by John Aglionby in Jakarta
Copyright The Financial Times Limited 2008

——以上转载自网络。